No, the thing to do would be to tape the controller to the bed or something so the if she got up sudden and had to run out, it would pull it out after a distance (assuming the control is wired to the vibrator. They make wireless ones these days for discretion, no?) This way, she wouldn't even have to think about needing to check. When sudden shock and adrenaline kick in, you generally don't really think: you react immediately, based on reflex and instinct.

Oh, and I do have a comment now: seems whoever wired her house did a good job and grounded it correctly. Or they had something that acted like a proper lightning rod. Applause to the architect and construction crew (or whoever decided to made mods to the house and the contractors that did the mods.)

If kisumi posted that shortly after the strike, it would mean none of the electrical wiring in the house got fried. Any breakers/fuses pop?