Strictly speaking, it's sort of why Trump won the White House; common people feel like the entire gay/trans thing is becoming invasive. I've been on Kona for five years or so, and never felt it was an issue worth speaking about until Matt started posting more male-male images. Based on my years experience browsing here, it was so seldom that it wasn't worth mentioning. If there's a perceived change in things that makes someone uncomfortable, it's their duty to speak out. The site can always tell me/them to shut up. But, it should always be voiced, regardless, or the site stagnates.