We have elderly neighbors on our floor. The woman recently had a heart attack, she was making good progress, but then is seems decided to "throw in the towel". She fell off the sofa and her husband came over asking for help, bent over in pain. Damn! it is not easy trying to pick up 115Kg/250lbs (guessing) of limp body off the floor. She was not providing any help what-so-ever. Now my back is hurting too. I could barely get my arms locked around her torso and you cannot just heave, you have to be accurate. The whole situation just makes me so sad.

Edit: I just learned that my neighbor was having a bad reaction to medication given to her to reduce shaking in her limbs and that the medication was stopped. That is a bit of good news.